Tape Measuring Fun

MeasuredYesterday I was busy in Sydney and Georgia’s room, rearranging the furniture. Sydney and Joel were enthralled with the tape measure: the way it springs back into place, the interesting numbers, just the fact that I was “playing” with it.

So today, when Sydney started whining about having to do her “rest time,” I remembered the tape measure.

I grabbed a clipboard, the tape measure, and a pencil and made a list. I wrote down about fifteen things that Sydney could walk around and measure. A couple of them were Joel’s ride-on toy, the Wii remote, the bathroom stool, Daddy’s shoe, and Joel’s shoe. Sydney is learning to read, so I just wrote the words on her paper, but for the younger set you could draw a simple picture.

Sydney spent a happy fifteen minutes carrying the clipboard around the house, measuring things. She wrote down her measurements next to each item and when she was done with the list, she trotted back to tell me all about it.

This is a great activity for preschoolers or even younger elementary kiddos because it gets them involved with math in a real-world setting. They get practice both “reading” and writing numbers (Sydney definitely could use more practice with that one), and their understanding of concepts like bigger/smaller becomes more defined.

Sydney is the kind of girl who likes to do a lot of different things, and it’s often hard for me to come up with toys she hasn’t seen in a while. But this afternoon I remembered that real-world learning activities are always a big hit with her. I guess I should plan something like this for her more often.

Because a happy preschooler at rest time is a happy mommy at rest time!

Are there any learning activities that your preschooler has enjoyed recently?
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My shy extrovert

I am an introvert. I am not a hermit–I love being with people, doing fun things, going places, and having a good time. But after all that, I need to go home and have a bit of silence.

For example, whenever our family goes to a museum, the zoo, or a party, I am always totally exhausted afterwards. The high level of stimulation, noise, and commotion around me wears me out.

With four kids, there is definitely a range of personalities in our home. And the way the introvert/extrovert “thing” manifests itself is fascinating to me. I always thought that being an introvert meant someone was shy. After all, that’s how it was for me. But not in our family!

One of our daughters is absolutely an introvert. This child can occupy herself for hours at a time, perfectly contently. Not that she often has the opportunity to be alone for hours at a time. She gets home from school and loves to spend a half an hour reading before she’s ready to play with her sisters. She gets irritated if it is too noisy in the house, and doesn’t like the music up too loud.

This daughter has no problem making friends, but she tends to have fewer, deeper friendships. She loves to have playdates that last hours and hours, but with just one good buddy. All these things seem, to me, to be the markers of a classic introvert.

But shy, she is not. This girl is not timid or frightened of much of anything. She will jump right in to a new activity she thinks looks exciting. She loves to perform in front of people, and is always willing to give her opinion on any issue, whether in or outside of class.

Our other two daughters are pretty much the opposite. They absolutely HATE being alone. It is almost physically painful to them if there is nobody to play with. They get grumpy over the weekend or during a school break if they haven’t had enough contact with their friends. They love loud noises, loud music, and lots of commotion.

Both of these girls have piles of friends. When they enter their classroom, kids yell their names and run over to them. They have trouble naming their “best” friend, as they have so many close friends. And nothing would be better for them than having a big group playdate with ten of their closest buddies. Extroverts, much?

But plop these girls into a new situation, and they freeze right up. They have a hard time saying “hi” to adults when they are greeted. One of them took over two months to get used to her preschool class when she was three. It wasn’t until the middle of December that she actually started playing with the other children. These two girls are quite shy!

It amazes me the way kids’ personalities, from the same family, can differ so greatly. We have yet to see what little Joel will be like. But the great thing is, no matter what personality type a child has, we are all valuable in this world. There is a place for the introvert and the extrovert! I love seeing how my children each learn to grow in their own unique and beautiful way.

Are you an introvert or extrovert?.Author Susan Cain explores how introverts can be powerful in a world where being an extrovert is highly valued. Join From Left to Write on January 19 as we discuss Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain. We’ll also be chatting live with Susan Cain at 1PM Eastern on January 26. As a member of From Left to Write, I received a free copy of the book to facilitate my participation in this discussion. All opinions are my own.

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Awake

On Fridays, I write for five minutes. No editing, no overthinking. This week’s topic is “Awake.”

I wake up in the morning, not fully awake. But the little guy is definitely up. The youngest ones in the house seem to be the most awake, both early in the morning and all day long.

Joel is either completely awake or out cold. He completely engages with the world at all times. There is not multi-tasking in a toddler’s day–when he’s playing, he isn’t trying to check his email or load the dishwasher.

Sydney is the same way. She is either doing one thing or another. When she’s working with play-doh, it’s all about the “doh.” When she’s looking at books, she isn’t talking on the phone at the same time.

It’s hard for me to just do one thing at a time, to really be awake and aware of the little person I’m spending time with. But the truth is, when I try to multi-task, it’s almost like I’m asleep. Neither task gets my full attention, and the child is the one who gets short-changed. Because how much attention does tossing the clothes in the washing machine really take?

Today, when my kids need something, I am going to focus on being awake in the moment. I will look them in the eye, and take in the beauty of their little faces. Everything else will still be there when I’m done, but that interaction with my children will not last forever.
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Is it too late for a resolutions post?

It’s a new year. I don’t know about you, but the start of the school year seems much more of a time for fresh starts than January, in the dead of winter. I love making new school-year goals. This time of year, though, my enthusiasm just isn’t there.

But I’m married to someone who LOVES to make New Year’s resolutions. And he often achieves them, too. Like in 2010 when he resolved to be able to run the Broad Street 10-miler. Yeah, he did that.

So, because I seem to be alone in my house in my ambivalence toward New Year’s Resolutions, I bring you my List. 9 days late.

1. Each week, I will declutter one surface in my home. Flat surfaces are my nemesis. Since I am a pile-er, there are often piles of junk on every available flat surface. The kitchen counter, end tables, dressers, the coffee table, these are all magnets for clutter. And it is going to end this year, week by week, one flat surface at a time. Hopefully I will get rid of a lot of stuff and the house will be easier to keep neat!

2. I am switching from a paper calendar to an electronic one. This is a biiiiiig deal for me. I have always been extremely reliant on my calendar and I have loved using the Sandra Boynton wall calendar for the past few years. (There is a column for every person in the family!) But it’s time to make the leap. It will be great for Rich and I to both be able to access the family calendar, and it will also be great for me to be able to access the calendar when I’m out and about. I have been using the Cozi calendar/iPhone app and so far so good.

4. I will be able to run a 5k. I have decided to start the “Couch to 5k” program, which eases non-runners into running. It involves running and walking three days a week for eight weeks, gradually walking less and running more. I’ve done the first week twice, and I can tell that it’s getting easier. Buying new running shoes helped, too!

3. I am going to keep track of the books I read this year. I love reading, and I always read a lot of books each year. But other than summer reading programs as a kid, I have never logged which books or how many I have read. Maybe I’ll keep track on my Cozi app!

4. Next week, I am starting the Blog Challenge 2012. Starting on the 16th, for 31 days I will be working on making my blog better. Want to join in? Head on over to check out this year’s Build a Better Blog Challenge.

Do you like to make New Year’s resolutions? What are some of your goals for this year?

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A great Christmas present

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Christmas cookies

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8 Tips for a stress-free gingerbread house

gingerbread house makingMy girls love to make a gingerbread house each Christmas. Over the years, I have found a few ways to make the process a lot easier.

  1. Buy a kit! I like to buy a kit during the after-Christmas clearance at a craft store. You can often find them 75% off, or even more. I think I got my kit for about $1 last year. Then I just kept it in my closet all year. The gingerbread pieces and candies are tightly sealed inside, so there should be no problem (at least I’ve never had a problem).
  2. Think outside the kit! Do your kids have as much leftover Halloween candy as mine do? Raid it to decorate your house. Smarties make great pebbles for a sidewalk. M&Ms are good for edging the roof or windowsills. Laffy Taffy can be warmed in the microwave for a few seconds and then rolled into long snakes to outline things. I always think the candy that comes with the kit needs to be supplemented.
  3. Grab a cutting board! I use a cutting board as a base for the house. I just cover it with foil (tape it on the bottom). Then I’m ready with a nice, shiny, icy-looking surface.
  4. Think like a cooking show! Mix up the icing and put each kind of candy into its own small bowl. Hopefully this will cut back on candy rolling away.
  5. Use hot glue! Assembling the gingerbread house with the included icing works, but it is time-consuming. You have to put together the walls, and then let it dry for a while (30 minutes, maybe) before putting on the roof. And then wait again! My kids (and I) do NOT have the patience for that. I just slap the gingerbread pieces together with hot glue, and we’re done. Ready to decorate. I usually just cover the hot glue with icing so it looks better. Don’t worry about not being able to eat the house, you’ve just stored the thing for the past year. That baby is STALE. You’re making a decoration, not a snack.
  6. Give each kid a section! If you have multiple small children, like I do, this tip is pretty much essential. By assigning each child one wall or roof panel, I have avoided lots of arguments. If I’m feeling like I care about how the house turns out, sometimes I assign myself the front of the house.
  7. Spread the icing yourself! Spreading the icing evenly is usually the hardest part for young kids. So I like to just spread/squeeze the icing on the house, then let the kids have at it with decorating. With the leftover icing, make a snowy yard for your house.
  8. Join in on the fun! I have found that no matter how messy the kids get with the gingerbread house, it always looks cute and festive when it’s done. So don’t worry about trying to control it, just grab some candies and start sticking. You’re making a memory, so don’t forget to take some pictures of those proud little faces with their creation!

Do your kids like to decorate gingerbread houses? What has worked well for your family?

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Three Flower Girls

My brother-in-law got married this past Saturday, and my girls’ dreams came true when they got to be the flower girls in the wedding.

The ceremony was at 2:00, which I was nervous about since Joel’s naptime is usually 12-3. But since he was up so late the night before at the rehearsal dinner, he went down for his nap at 10:30 a.m. and got in almost two hours of sleep before we left!

I spent the morning primping, curling, braiding, spraying, and clipping the girls’ hair. They enjoyed watching The Princess Bride while I worked, so there was a minimum of fighting and squirming.

Once we got to the church, the girls waited excitedly for the ceremony to start. And when the moment arrived, they were lovin’ life! They were all smiles down the aisle. Unfortunately, the church where the wedding was held did not allow flower petals to be thrown (even silk ones), but the girls loved their pretty little bouquets anyway.

Somehow, between goldfish crackers, raisins, books, toys and his pacifier, I managed to keep Joel mostly quiet during the ceremony. There was one notable exception…after the soloist had finished her final song, he yelled, “Yay!” and the entire congregation laughed.

The reception was the best part for the kids. I think Joel ate about half his weight from the cheese tray, and then fell asleep during the dancing. But the girls were tearing up the floor the whole time! Audrey’s second grade teacher had taught her class the electric slide, so that was fun for her to do. And Sydney insisted on dancing with her bouquet the entire night.

The girls were among the last people on the dance floor at the end of the party. They are asking when they can go to another wedding because they had so much fun. Congratulations, Uncle Tom and Aunt Stacy!

Head over to my review blog to check out my review of some fun flower girl books!

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Warm up winter

Winter is almost here, and although it is my least favorite season, my kids love it! There is not much they love more than a good romp in the snow. I am thinking that little Joel might be big enough this winter to go sledding a little bit, and fortunately this year we got smart and bought some sleds in October.

When the kids come in from playing out in the snow all wet and cold, of course I serve them hot chocolate. Sydney and Georgia prefer hot vanilla (hot milk with sugar and a couple drops of vanilla extract) and Audrey likes her hot chocolate with a bit of peppermint extract mixed in.

And I love making warm, hearty meals for dinner in winter. The slow cooker is my best friend. Stews, chunky toppers for pasta or rice, all hot and ready at dinner time.

Another option is the pot pie. I haven’t made many pot pies for my family because Rich doesn’t really like them, but I love pot pie. The chicken, yummy gravy, veggies, and the flaky crust on top, mmmm.

When I was a kid, every once in a while my from-scratch-cooking mom would pop Marie Callender’s pot pies in the oven for dinner. I always loved eating my own little pie, although it took forEVer for it to cool off enough to eat!

It was with these fond memories that I agreed to review Marie Callender’s pot pies this month. I picked a night when Rich was away for work, and baked the chicken pot pies in the oven. They do have microwave directions, but I remembered my mom always baking them and I was home all afternoon, so I had the 65 minutes available for them to cook.

The pies smelled just like I remembered, and they tasted just as good, too! They received mixed reviews from my kids, but so does everything I put in front of them. Joel loved the chicken and ate all of his and mine, too. The big girls liked the filling but didn’t love the pastry (but they never like pie crust) and Sydney ate apple slices for dinner (typical for her).

The pie crust dipped in the yummy gravy was my favorite part. It tasted just like it did when I was little! The chicken (well, the couple of bites I had while Joel wasn’t looking) was tender, and the veggies were somehow crisp-tender, not soggy.

My concern over serving these pot pies regularly was that they were by no means low-fat or low-calorie. Each pie I baked was two servings. But they were so tasty that I would definitely be in favor of eating them every now and then!

Marie Callender’s pot pies come in seven varieties, and have no preservatives.

This post is sponsored by Marie Callender’s and The Motherhood. I received products and a stipend to facilitate my review. All opinions are my own.

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Love Came Down/Giveaway

Nine days to Christmas.

Nine days to finish shopping, wrapping, baking, cleaning, spending, rushing, snapping.

Or nine days to meditate, give thanks, laugh, sing, smile, hug, make memories.

I don’t know about you, but I am very prone to the first list, while longing to focus on the second. There is so much to get done at this time of year, with four kids, that even our advent preparation can seem like something else to add to my to-do list.

That’s why I love the Jesus, God’s Promises Fulfilled Advent Tabletop Devotion. This pretty book stands up on your table and has one page for each day of Advent. There is one verse of Scripture to meditate on that describes one of God’s promises that was fulfilled in Christ, and then a question to help you think more deeply about the coming of Jesus throughout your day.

Quick, but the type of question that tends to stick in your head. For example, yesterday’s page said that Jesus fulfilled God’s promise of purpose. The question asked if you felt a connection toward a specific group of people and if you thought God was directing you toward a certain kind of ministry.

“Love Came Down” is the name of DaySpring’s new Christmas line. Thinking about how Jesus gave up his heavenly home to come to earth is a great way for me to get my focus off of my to-do list. Bringing back the idea of Jesus’ sacrifice to become a helpless baby helps me realize that this wonderful season is a celebration of the greatest gift of all, not just a bunch of stuff to get done.

Good news for my readers! I have a $20 coupon code to give away to DaySpring online store. To win, just leave me a comment about a meaningful Christmas tradition you have. US addresses only, please. Contest ends on Thursday, December 22.
I was provided by (in)Courage and DaySpring with a sample of this product to facilitate my review. All opinions are my own.

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